Ecstasy Unshackled: Great Lovemaking Made Simple

This educational book is dedicated to couples who genuinely care for each other deeply; and committed to make their relationships exciting and long-lasting. This could benefit especially those who may be experiencing some challenges with physical intimacy—and needing an effective catalyst for renewed vigor in their relationships each, and every day. The definition of “great lover” is debatable and could be different for different people. The same is true for the meaning of “making love” and “having sex”. The politically correct explanation may be that everyone is entitled to one’s personal opinion. With due respect, while the book can be useful to any responsible adult couples, the essence of this book originates from the author’s perspective as a married man. In this book, having sex is defined simply as the physical act of sexual intercourse to satisfy sexual urge or need---with or without emotional attachment. Making love, on the other hand, is more holistic. It is defined as a complete package of passionate actions by a man with an unselfish desire to fully satisfy a woman by giving her his undivided and unhurried attention; and gifting her with extremely pleasurable intimate emotional and physical experience---including an ecstatic conclusion from sexual union—setting aside his needs as secondary. By being unselfish, he becomes a confident and empowered lover! He who attains this high level of lovemaking accomplishment is a great lover! This condensed but very informative book is intended to benefit you, married couples. It doesn’t matter whether you are madly in love with each other, just going through the motions, or somewhere in between. Perhaps you got married when you were too young or too old. It doesn’t really matter! It doesn’t even matter whether you have money or not! This is a great social equalizer…because it works equally well whether you are super rich or extremely poor! The information contained in this book could, in dramatic ways, potentially improve, revive, or even revolutionize the intimacy of your physical relationships. Marriage can be complicated. Everybody knows that it requires commitment and maturity, yet a lot of people have a hard time living up to their vows. There’s a lot of moving parts that can go wrong, and if the couple are not persistent and genuinely committed to stick with each other for the long haul—divorce may just be a matter of time. Post-marriage experience can be challenging. It was reported that in the U.S., 50% of first marriages, 67% of second, and 74% of third marriages end in divorce (Forest Institute of Professional Psychology in Springfield, Missouri as cited in the link www.divorcerate.org; accessed 12/07/2012). It is sad that this situation is becoming like an epidemic! Reasons for divorce abound. Some are irreconcilable differences, incompatibilities, physical intimacy problems, infidelity, financial problems, and so on and so forth. Problems on physical intimacy are often listed as one of the top 5 reasons for divorce. This highlights the importance of a healthy and satisfying sexual relationship between married couples. It is disheartening to note that deteriorating physical relationships and unfulfilled sexual needs break marriages, when in most cases something can be done to minimize, if not prevent them. This idea is the central driving force behind the writing of this book. This book is intended for two groups of married people: first, for couples who already have healthy physical relationship but would like to take their intimacy to the next level; and second, for couples who may have challenges on physical intimacy but would like to give it a second chance! Both couples could benefit greatly from this book. While the situation may be different from one couple to another, the author hopes that mastering the great-lover-technique presented in this book will serve as catalyst for physical intimacy that strengthen the marital bond of couples, thereby increasing their chances of long-term success. With that, the author would have accomplished his original goal in writing this book.

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